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SHARING NEIGHBORS TO PLOW CREEK FELLOWSHIP Renewed Sept. 2006 Dear Friends, In 1980, the Fellowship adopted Sharing Neighbor as a step in the process of people becoming members of the Fellowship. It followed after a number of months of being Intentional Neighbors: a time of getting settled into the area, finding work, building relationships with the folks already here. Intentional Neighbors met regularly with a few mentors, but did not attend Fellowship meetings. Sharing Neighbor was offered to people who were seriously interested in becoming Fellowship members, and was to be a six to 12-month span of time. During this time, folks began attending Fellowship meetings regularly, along with sharing groups, which were then a feature of Fellowship life only. Sharing neighbors worked to bring their food and personal spending in line with the Fellowship allowance system, using this time to test how that worked for them. Medical, transportation and housing expenses were not included in this. The Sharing Neighbor period was again a time of building further trust. It was seen as a time of active discernment and seeking the Lord if membership in the Fellowship was His way for them. There have been no Sharing Neighbors here since Grahams and Michele were sharing neighbors in 1998-1999. This “path” into Fellowship membership has become so overgrown that folks haven’t known how to find it. So we are clearing the path. The framework for Sharing Neighbor would be the same as before in terms of personal finances and attendance at Fellowship meetings. Participation in decision making as we build agenda and discuss issues is encouraged by all. Formal affirmation of an item by the high five method is reserved for committed members. Summary of Sharing neighbor status: 1. For people who sense a call to be a PCF member and want a final period of testing 2. Attend PCF members’ meetings for 6 to 12 months (length of time may be negotiated) 3. Finances continue to be separate but sharing neighbors live on same food and personal allowances as members 4. Participate in PCF members meeting decision making according to the Power to the People guidelines. Originally, Fellowship membership was seen as a life time commitment. We learned long ago that is not realistic and was damaging to relationships with folks who felt the need to leave here. But while we do not see this as a life time commitment, it is a serious commitment and needs good discernment. It is not easy to grow and maintain trust in a common purse setting. It is not easy to keep relationships clear so that consensus decision making can work in a good way. It is also a wonderful way for the Lord to work in our lives and keep us growing in Him and with each other. |